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Everyday Money Habits · Leader FAQ

If this isn't you?

Every session fits most of the room — and misses someone. One person has no match, another is self-employed, a third is already debt-free, a fourth is behind on payments and quietly panicking. This is the leader’s cheat sheet for those moments: the objections that come up week by week, each with a plain, un-defensive way to answer it. Skim the week before you run it.

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For the leader, when a session doesn't fit the room
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Skim before each session
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Nothing to fill in — a leader's reference
Objective

Walk into each session ready for the person the week doesn’t fit — the named objections, and a plain, un-defensive way to answer each.

Use this when

You're leading the course and want an answer ready when someone says “but that's not me” — no match, self-employed, no debt, already covered.

How to use it

You don’t need to memorize anything. Find the week you’re about to lead, read its two to four objections, and keep the sheet nearby. When someone says “but that’s not me,” you’ll have already met them there — and the honest answer is often “then this part just doesn’t apply to you,” which is its own kind of relief. Where a session lands differently for a teenage room, a With teens note says how.

The Foundations semester · weeks 1–6

Money's two jobs

I don't make enough to budget.

A budget isn't for people with money left over — it's how you tell the money you do have where to go. The tighter the paycheck, the more the plan earns its keep.

With teens A small allowance or a few shifts still splits two ways — name a today-money and a tomorrow-money jar, even on a tiny amount.

My income is different every month.

Budget off your lowest recent month and treat anything above it as a bonus to assign when it actually lands, not before.

My partner and I keep our money separate.

The split still works household by household: the course only asks each person to name today- versus tomorrow-money, never to merge accounts. Budget first, and each of you keeps your own say.

Your first paycheck

I'm self-employed — I don't get a pay stub.

No one is withholding taxes for you, so the session flips: set aside a chunk of every payment for the taxes that aren't being taken out, and send them in yourself each quarter — the estimated-tax payments a regular job makes for you. Bring a recent invoice or a month of deposits instead of a stub.

With teens No job yet? Have them bring a sample or a redacted stub, so there's a real one on the table to read line by line.

I've read pay stubs for years.

Then be the one who explains the lines everyone skips — most people can't say that OASDI is just the payroll system's own name for the Social Security tax (Old-Age, Survivors, and Disability Insurance), or why a pre-tax deduction shrinks the tax before the check is even cut.

Three months in a coffee can

I still have credit-card debt — shouldn't that come first?

Save one small starter month first, then throw everything at the card. A bare buffer keeps the next flat tire from landing right back on the balance you're paying down.

My job is rock-solid — do I really need six months?

Size it to how fast you could replace the income and how many people lean on it — the steadier the job and the fewer the people depending on it, the closer to the three-month end you can sit.

I'd rather invest it — cash just loses to inflation.

This money's only job is to be there the day you need it. It's a fire extinguisher, not an investment — you're buying certainty, not a return.

The match is part of your pay

My job has no match.

Then there's nothing to leave on the table here — skip straight to opening a Roth IRA on your own. The match step simply doesn't apply to you.

With teens A teen with a summer job rarely has a workplace plan; the same move for them is a Roth IRA on their earned income.

I'm not vested yet — I might leave before it's mine.

Your own contributions are always yours; only the match can be forfeited. Some plans vest it gradually, so you keep a rising share each year; others are all-or-nothing before a cliff date, so leaving early keeps you none. Either way the move is the same: get the full match while you're there, since you can't know today which schedule will end up mattering.

I can't afford to contribute enough to get the full match.

Put in what you can and raise it one percent at a time — a partial match is still money you'd otherwise never see.

Time beats amount

I'm already in my thirties or forties — didn't I miss the early start?

The best time was earlier; the second-best is today. Starting later just means leaning a little more on the amount — every remaining year still compounds.

With teens A teen's dollar has the longest runway of anyone in the room — the single biggest edge they will ever have. Make that vivid.

The market feels too high to start right now.

Time in the market beats timing it. Automatic monthly contributions buy through the highs and the lows, so you never have to guess the top.

Where the next dollar goes

My situation doesn't fit a neat ladder.

The ladder is the order to ask the questions, not a cage. Skip the rungs that don't apply — no debt, no kids — and stop at your lowest unfunded step.

I just had a big life change — a new job, a baby, a move.

Then walk the list again from the top. After any major change the right next dollar can move, and the ladder is how you find its new home.

I can only fund one thing right now.

That's exactly what the ladder is for — it names the one. Fund the lowest unfunded step and let everything above it wait its turn.

The adult track · weeks 7–10

Debt, the honest way

My debt is already a crisis — I'm behind on payments.

This is a planning session, not a rescue. If someone's behind on payments, facing repossession, or weighing bankruptcy, point them to a non-profit credit counselor accredited by the National Foundation for Credit Counseling (nfcc.org) — that's outside what a 30-minute group can solve, and it's the right kind of help.

I don't have any debt.

Then this week is a spectator sport — help someone else rank theirs, and use the time to look at where your freed-up money goes next on the week-six ladder.

With teens In a teen room this is most of the class — swap the pre-work: instead of "bring a debt to rank," have them bring a real purchase they're weighing and practice the same is-this-worth-it call.

Shouldn't I clear every debt before I invest a dollar?

The employer match comes before any debt — it's a bigger return than almost any interest rate. After that only the high-rate debts jump ahead of investing; the low-rate ones can ride alongside it.

Which account, and why

This is over my head — I just want to save.

You don't have to master tax law. You need one idea: the account is a wrapper, not the investment, and Roth versus Traditional is just a choice about when you're taxed.

I'm self-employed — none of these accounts apply to me.

They do — a solo 401(k) or a SEP-IRA hands a self-employed person the same wrappers. Same tax deal, just a different door in; which of the two to open is a details question for a guide or an accountant, not one to settle in the room.

My employer only offers a Traditional 401(k).

Use it for the match, then open a Roth IRA on the side. Now you're taxed a little now and a little later — that diversification is the point.

The insurance you actually need

I'm young and healthy — I don't need insurance.

Insurance isn't for the likely; it's for the catastrophe you couldn't write a check for. Disability is the one young people most underrate — the odds of losing a stretch of working years to injury or illness are higher than almost anyone guesses.

I'm single with no kids — why would I need life insurance?

You mostly don't. Life insurance replaces the income other people depend on — with no dependents there's little to replace, and the honest answer is usually "not yet." The narrow exceptions are a co-signed debt that would land on someone else, or covering your own final expenses. The coverage that does apply to you now is disability, not life.

I'm already covered through work.

Check what actually follows you if you leave the job, and whether the life or disability amount is anywhere near enough — employer coverage is often thinner than people assume and rarely portable.

Isn't whole life a good investment too?

Insurance is for catastrophe, not growth; bundling the two usually serves the seller more than you. It does have a narrow place — a very large estate to plan around, or a dependent who will never be independent — but that's the exception, not the pitch.

Giving & what you leave

I don't have enough to give, or to leave anything.

Giving is a rhythm, not an amount — a fixed small percentage counts. And everyone has something to direct: a beneficiary form, a guardian for the kids. That's the "what you leave" half, and it costs nothing.

Estate planning is for old or rich people.

The default is that the state decides for you. A will and a few beneficiary forms are simply how you decide instead — and they matter most the moment someone depends on you, at any age.

I already give through my church — I've got this covered.

Good — then this week is about the other half: naming who decides the rest. The beneficiary forms and the will that a giving habit never touches.

When it’s more than a session can hold

A few of these aren’t objections to answer — they’re signals to refer out. Week seven names the one that matters most: a debt already in crisis goes to a non-profit credit counselor (nfcc.org), not to the group. The same instinct holds any week a real emergency surfaces. Everything else, you’ve got.

For the fuller runbook behind these — cadence, group norms, and where you stop — see leading the course, and hand the room the week-zero self-check before session one.

Based on the ten-week course.

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